Annie Bear

Wednesday, June 23, 2010


Teddy's name: Annie Bear

Age when sexually assaulted: 13 - 21

Who assaulted Teddy: Brother

Town or State where the assault happened: California

Teddy's message to the world:

To my brother: I wonder if, in the next world, you have finally realized the indescribable pain you caused me in so many ways, not just sexual. You were supposed to protect me. Instead, you betrayed me, exerted power and control over me, and harmed me repeatedly. The damage can never be completely undone. To survivors: You are some of my favorite people in the world, even as I wish you had never experienced this hellish nightmare. I tried to get help when I was in college. I gave up too easily. I became a victim of more trauma. It took me over 30 years to break the silence. It has been painful, but one of the best things I have ever done. Speak up. Pray -- even if all you can do is yell and scream or cry to God at first. Find a band of fellow survivors and love and support them as they love and support you. Never give up. We will heal.

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

God bless you. I was too a victom at 10 and 11. My oldest brother the perp. I was 49 when it all came to me in a horrific nightmear. I am a survivor. Yet day in and day out...having a hard time with it all. Keep praying for strength to make it to tomorrow.

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